雅思口語(yǔ)Part2話(huà)題浪費(fèi)時(shí)間的活動(dòng)—談戀愛(ài)

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在最近的一次課上，一個(gè)姑娘看到這個(gè)題目之后，立馬跟我表達(dá)了她的思路談戀愛(ài)真的太TM浪費(fèi)時(shí)間了，尤其是當(dāng)你遭遇了無(wú)疾而終的愛(ài)情。

但是，戀愛(ài)本身就是很難預(yù)測(cè)未來(lái)。戀愛(ài)-結(jié)婚-終老，這是一種模式。戀愛(ài)-結(jié)婚-離婚，也是一種模式。還有一種是戀愛(ài)-分手，很多人經(jīng)歷過(guò)的模式。甚至有一種恐怖模式：戀愛(ài)-結(jié)婚-謀殺-碎尸。太可怕了！

所謂不談戀愛(ài)，屁事沒(méi)有，真的很有道理。

為什么女生普遍在分手后義憤填膺，甚至在過(guò)了很多年之后想起前任依舊是咬牙切齒的狀態(tài)呢？

我估計(jì)應(yīng)該是姑娘們普遍在戀愛(ài)的時(shí)候都幻想過(guò)未來(lái)要嫁給那個(gè)人吧，甚至有的人可能第一眼就淪陷了，把未來(lái)孩子的名字想好了什么的。所以，最后的分手就會(huì)讓人有種老娘這么多年的青春真是喂了狗的感覺(jué)。

其實(shí)分手兩個(gè)人都會(huì)痛苦，只是程度不同而已。青春也是一起浪費(fèi)的，誰(shuí)的青春沒(méi)浪費(fèi)過(guò)呢？

當(dāng)下，很多姑娘高喊著要做富婆，只有自己有錢(qián)心里才踏實(shí)，說(shuō)男人沒(méi)用，都是渣男，都是廢物，有錢(qián)沒(méi)錢(qián)都出軌。這話(huà)呀，看出來(lái)了，這些姑娘是真絕望了，估計(jì)也被騙過(guò)，傷心了。

但是，她們?cè)谝粋€(gè)人獨(dú)處的時(shí)候，委屈的時(shí)候，疲憊的時(shí)候，閨蜜和爸媽都不在身邊的時(shí)候，真的會(huì)強(qiáng)大到不會(huì)胡思亂想么？表面的堅(jiān)強(qiáng)掩蓋不了內(nèi)心的柔軟。每一個(gè)不會(huì)撒嬌的姑娘都是因?yàn)闆](méi)有被溫柔對(duì)待過(guò)吧。

所以，戀愛(ài)到底是不是一個(gè)浪費(fèi)時(shí)間的行為？如果多次戀愛(ài)失敗，是不是就要下定決心不再相信愛(ài)情？沒(méi)有愛(ài)情的婚姻是無(wú)意義的么？婚姻一定是愛(ài)情的墳?zāi)姑?？結(jié)婚是為了傳宗接代么？是為了給父母一個(gè)安慰么？戀愛(ài)專(zhuān)家對(duì)于這些問(wèn)題能夠給出一個(gè)完美的答案么？

如果愛(ài)情會(huì)讓人變成傻子，那么我們應(yīng)該甘之如飴還是清醒拒絕一切可能的愛(ài)情，認(rèn)認(rèn)真真地決定絕對(duì)不做一個(gè)傻子？

我只有問(wèn)號(hào)，沒(méi)有答案。

但是這道題目我可以給大家一個(gè)參考答案。

I often fall in love with the wrong person, again and again. I have alot of bad romances. I started to date when I was in college and experienced a few relationships. However, I am single now and I dont feel like dating anyone at this moment.

I used to believe that falling in love is a very romantic and magical thing since the word love is so beautiful and special.Therefore, when I failed in a relationship, I would always try to find myself back and be prepared to meet another person. Some of my relationships last for over two years. Some last for a few months. To think about them today, I would say that I have indeed wasted a lot of time since no one becomes my permanent partner.

Compared with some of my friends who dated only once and got married with their date, I seem to be a big loser.

Actually, I didnt think being in a relationship is a waste of time in the past. I was always concentrated and serious with the boys.However, now, I think differently. If I fall in love with a wrong person again, I may end up alone again. I dont trust intimate relationships any more. To some extent, I dont trust men any more.I could always use my precious time to keep company with my parents and friends. Its more fruitful to focus on improving myself and spending time with those who really love me and those who deserve my love. Bad romance can only bring me hurt and disappointment. I dont want to waste my time any more.

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